Finding Our Way...

Doing things the worlds way can and will take a lot of your precious time. If you're not careful, 10 years with the same person with no commitment, plan for your life, vision for your future, will come and go in what seems like such a short time and before you know it - you'll be hitting the reset button to start life all over with another person. Picking up all the pieces from a place that had no insight to your future is what the world will tell you is normal. Don't worry about it they'll say; at least you know now before you've spent forever with this person.

But think about it, spending 10 years with a person is taking up a great portion of your life and to yield you no return on your investment can be disastrous.

I am a fervent believer that doing it Gods way is best. Go through the courtship process with praying family, friends and leaders that way you're sure to not fall down and make a huge mistake. Forget what the world says and work towards creation roles, why??? because The Father will be pleased.

Courting vs dating is a choice to wait for God’s best, for His glory. It is a decision to walk by faith, to trust in God, to honor others above yourself, and to believe that God will deal bountifully with you, because He is love. (See II Corinthians 5:7, Psalm 9:10, Romans 12:10, Psalm 13, and I John 4:8.)

Because each individual, family, and set of circumstances is unique, each courtship will be unique but in the long run if you do things the right way you'll be setting yourself up for greatness and not spiritual, physical or mental failure.

As each couple find their way; may every step you take be closer to the Father and do not take away anything that may potentially belong to someone else's spouse.

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